After a swap was accepted and addresses were exchanged with a new swapper, she backed out & said her car broke down & can't make it to the post office. She also said she won't be able to swap anymore. She's now saying that she can sell me the items (I don't know how that will work if her car is broken down & she can't ship anything out). I told her I can wait till her car got fixs, & I'm better off with what we first agreed on. I haven't heard from her yet, but she put all the items I wanted up for sell now. My question is can I/Should I leave her a negative token? Thanks
Tuesday, 29th September, 2009
[quote=lburkhart]I got the same msg from the swapper as well. I am just going to let it go since I agree that it seems a bit weird. In my opinion I say forget her and move on! She seems a bit young to me. Good luck :)
Lisa[/quote]
I want to move on, but I feel since she is new, she should know. I'm not really into leaving other swappers negative feedback. I just felt like this girl was lying about the whole thing. But yeah, I guess its best to just move on. [b]Thank you ladies![/b] :)
Tuesday, 29th September, 2009
Just send them back. Not leaving her a neutral or negative token is really nice of you.
Saturday, 17th October, 2009
I want an invite please! :D
Wednesday, 21st October, 2009
[quote=amedina625]I know I am late responding to this but I just found myself in a similar situation today. Thank God I have not sent the items yet. The person I swapped with is a newbie and I was supposed to be swapping several new with tags items for some boys shirts. She seemed very anxious for me to send the items out to her asap. I kept telling her I would send when I received the items. I'm sure glad I waited. 10 of 32 shirts were useable, the 22 are in poor condition with very large stains, extensive wash wear, and sizes that were not listed on the post! Am I overreacting????? I know everyone has different opinions on what "good", "fair", "poor" condition are but come on...! I think it is a basic fact that if items have large yellow stains on them it qualifies as "poor" condition. Am I wasting my money to send the items back?? Absolutely not. The items have no value, they are going in the trash. Trust me, I do not expect perfect clothing from items that are labeled "used". A little wash wear, a tiny unoticeable stain...those types of things are expected and can be dealt with but when more that half of yout items belong in the garbage, that's just wrong. As a matter of fact, I've dug in the trash for clothes on more than one occasion! The items I found there were in much better condition. For the sake of trying to be fair I will still swap two of my new with tags items but there is no way I'm handing over five new items for these things. I'll just have to take a negative token and hope people will check all the feedback. I'm taking pics of all the clothing as proof of their condition. Am I wrong??? Do I spend my money to send them back?? Let me know.[/quote]
I think it best if you send it back. Its always good to ask questions about the items being sent. I hope everything works out for you! :D
Friday, 26th June, 2009
