Okay, I am going to do this discreetly, I do not want to drop names YET!!
I really need help with this situation, so any and help is much appreciated..
I set up a swap, with a swapper..Back in OCTOBER. Like a dweeb, I forgot to enclose an item. So, I sent it separate.
She said she got the first portion, but STILL 3 months later, has not gotten the other portion.
This swapper is horrible at communication, yet she has like 30 + positive feedback.
I sent her an email asking her to either send my items back, or to send one half of her end. She then said, SHE HAD USED, almost ALL of what I sent her. I sent her an email asking if something else I had would work for her after that , and no response. It takes her sometimes a month to get back to me. I am fed up at this point.
Is one of the most important rules of swapping not using a product before the other user has gotten their end?
Please, ladies, let me know. Im really sick of this!!
Hi - Yes, you not suppose to use items before the other person has rec'd you items also, just to make sure that both parties are satisified with the swap. I have been swapping for 6 years and I found that some people follow the rule while others just move on. Looks like this person has moved on and doesn't want to communicate with you or anyone. That's too bad b/c you seem to be a really nice gal, very accommedating and would like closure too. If the swap is closed, then I would move on. But if you didn't get all your items, I would report her on swaptwak.com *sp?* and give her a fair to poor token if you feel strongly about this swap. Hope this helps.